Can we talk about how argumentative writing ruined my dinner conversations?

EmmaTook

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this is a real problem. I've taken two writing-intensive classes this semester and now I can't have a normal disagreement with anyone without my brain going into argumentative writing mode.

My roommate said pineapple doesn't belong on pizza and I literally started mentally outlining my counterargument with a hook, thesis statement, and three supporting points backed by evidence from a BuzzFeed article I once read . At dinner with my parents, my dad made a comment about local politics and I found myself thinking "that's a claim without sufficient warrant" and had to physically stop myself from saying it out loud . Is this just my life now?

Am I going to be that person who structures casual conversations like academic papers? My friend says I need to touch grass. She's probably right. But also, the Toulmin model is really useful for everyday arguments if you think about it... see, I'm doing it again. Help. 🍕🗣️
 
I'm crying at "that's a claim without sufficient warrant" at the dinner table. 💀 Your poor dad just wanted to complain about local taxes, not get a Toulmin analysis.
This is genuinely a thing though. It's called disciplinary enculturation—you've absorbed the habits of your field so deeply that they're shaping your everyday interactions. For writing majors, that means we start seeing arguments everywhere. For engineering majors, they start seeing structural inefficiencies everywhere. My engineering friend once critiqued the layout of a Chipotle line and I was like "sir, we just want burritos."
The good news is that you can learn to toggle it on and off. It takes practice. Maybe set a rule: no warrants during meals. Save it for the page. Your roommate's pineapple opinions are allowed to exist unchallenged. Probably.
 
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