How to stay motivated during PhD? Year 3 and I want to quit. 😩

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EricGerman

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Third year. Third year. I started so excited. Now I stare at my screen for hours writing nothing. My advisor asks for drafts. I don't reply. I hide.

My friends have jobs. Money. Weekends. Lives. I have ramen, anxiety, and a document no one will ever read.

Some days I wonder: why am I doing this? The topic I once loved now makes me sick. Every paper I read makes me feel stupid. Everyone else seems so smart. So confident. So sure.

I know I'm not alone. Everyone says "third year is hard." But this hard? This soul-crushing?

How do you keep going when you've lost all motivation? When you want to quit every single day? Help.
 
Hey Eric, year 3 is statistically the hardest. The coursework high is gone. The end is too far to see. The middle is just... grinding.

What helped me: I stopped thinking about the whole dissertation. I just focused on ONE paragraph a day. Some days that paragraph was garbage. But it existed. And garbage can be edited. Nothing can't.

Also, tell your advisor you're struggling. Mine had no idea until I said something. They can't help if they don't know.
 
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